Girls be like I needed this and its just boundaries and their bed... Wellness isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being real and that starts with stopping the cycle of people pleasing.This one’s for my recovering “nice girls,” my people pleasers, and anyone who’s tired of saying “yes” when they really mean “no.”In today’s episode, we’re unpacking:What people pleasing actually looks like (it’s sneakier than you think)Why so many of us learned to put others first at the cost of our own peaceHow to gently but powerfully break the habitA big sister pep talk to help you reclaim your voice, your time, and your energyIf you’ve been feeling drained, resentful, or like you don’t even know what you want anymore… this episode is your reset. You’re allowed to have needs. You’re allowed to disappoint people. You’re allowed to take up space.Let this be your permission slip to stop performing and start showing up as your full self, messy, honest, worthy.? Tune in and take your power back.FOLLOW TRIN :IG @trinitytondeleirTikTok @trinitytondeleirYoutube: trinity tondeleirTrin's YoutubeJOIN OUR HGW GROUP CHATSUBMIT TO THE WELLNESS CAFE:- write in for the HGW hangout summer episodes!!!!- ASK TRIN!! advice session form

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Welcome to The Wellness Cafe Podcast. Your go to Hot Girl Walk podcast. Your host Trinity Tondeleir who you may know from TikTok, Instagram, or Youtube is serving all things wellness, lifestyle, girl-talk and everything in between. Come hangout every Wednesday!For sponsorship inquiries, please email trinitytondeleir@gmail.com
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Folge vom 14.05.2025Why You Feel Drained All the Time (Spoiler: You’re People Pleasing)
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Folge vom 07.05.2025Spring Moodboard: girly chats, mindset shifts, current favs etcIt’s giving healing and having fun. In today’s episode, we’re catching up like girlfriends on FaceTime over matcha on everything that’s been saving me this spring—new hobbies (hello tennis era), current favorites, fashion trends, recipes, and little life upgrades that have been helping me feel more like me again. I’m also getting real about moving through a breakup, why it's okay to still grieve your past while building a better future, and how embracing girlhood joy has been my biggest act of self-love lately. If you're looking for inspiration, motivation, and a reminder that you're doing amazing even if you're figuring it out as you go, this episode is for you.FOLLOW TRIN :IG @trinitytondeleirTikTok @trinitytondeleirYoutube: trinity tondeleirTrin's YoutubeJOIN OUR HGW GROUP CHATSUBMIT TO THE WELLNESS CAFE:- write in for the HGW hangout summer episodes!!!!- ASK TRIN!! advice session form
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Folge vom 23.04.2025Peace Is a Power Move: The Unbothered Girl’s GuideIt’s time to stop spiralling and start protecting your peace. In this episode, we’re entering our unbothered queen era because not everything (or everyone) deserves a reaction. If you’ve been feeling overstimulated, easily triggered, or lowkey exhausted by the noise… this one’s for you. Think of this as your guide to walking through life like the main character even when people try to test your vibe.Mood: Do Not Disturb. Inner peace is the new flex. Let’s get into it.FOLLOW TRIN :IG @trinitytondeleirTikTok @trinitytondeleirYoutube: trinity tondeleirTrin's YoutubeJOIN OUR HGW GROUP CHATSUBMIT TO THE WELLNESS CAFE:- write in for the HGW hangout summer episodes!!!!- ASK TRIN!! advice session form
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Folge vom 17.04.2025the healthy healing girl guide (post long term relationship)The Ultimate Healing Girl Era Guide (No, We're Not Downloading Hinge) Today’s episode is for the girlies going through it — maybe it’s your first breakup, maybe your heart’s still hurting months later, or maybe you’re just entering your healing era and everyone keeps asking why you’re not back on the apps yet ...Well guess what? You’re not “behind.” You don’t need a new boyfriend. You need you right now. And this episode is your cozy little corner of the internet to feel seen, heard, and so validated.FOLLOW TRIN :IG @trinitytondeleirTikTok @trinitytondeleirYoutube: trinity tondeleirTrin's YoutubeJOIN OUR HGW GROUP CHATSUBMIT TO THE WELLNESS CAFE:- write in for the HGW hangout summer episodes!!!!- ASK TRIN!! advice session form